Tuesday, December 22, 2009

How to talk positively increase your charisma.

The principle is simple. There is even one sentence: do not allow you to use negations. Do it on a day to start. Do it when you write your emails, for example, so you'll have a few seconds for replay. A priori, this seems easy and yet ... some thoughts or sentences will seem difficult to translate without using any denial. In that case, dig yourself a little brains, there is always a solution.

Know that I practice this game for months and it is really exciting. By regularly practicing this game, your character goes for you too, undergo changes in depth. You will release your infectious energy. Your family will appreciate the benefits and you also at the same time.

Some technical: what would happen when people use negations? There are two very fast. To understand what they express, we must first think that they just refuse to believe that one. Then only, our brain uses an internal mechanism for thinking that the situation is quite different. In fact, it applies the negation "afterthought." An example will be more meaningful. If I tell you this fruit is an apple. You all thought the concept of the apple afterwards you say no, not that. It is almost a reflex.

Come away! Gentlemen! If a pretty woman tells you "Hey, you're surely not kiss me! "What do you think instead? As you can see, the use of negation is a double edged sword. So every time you use a negation, the caller is prompted to have a thought that should instantly repress his mind if he succeeds. This energy is negative and cons-productive. The message you send is losing effectiveness, or even neutralizes itself. Be aware: to suppress a thought, you made the first born. Is it that you're pulling a bullet in the foot, too? It is a fact, a charismatic person rarely uses negations as speaking positively is far more powerful.



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